Dear Harvey,

I don’t mind when my dog jumps up on me, but I don’t want him too when guests arrive at our home.  How do I teach him that it’s okay for me, but not others?

~ Sadie & Rupert (my dog), Forest Heights, Kitchener

Hey Sadie and Rupert, this is an easy answer!

Sure, it's cute when a puppy jumps up on you - a demonstration of her affection - but it's important to break this habit early on. It can be confusing for Rupert to be allowed to jump up sometimes, but not aways.  It's not so cute when a 90-pound dog tackles you (or your visitors) just to say hello. Here's how to stop the jumping on people:

• When Rupert comes to greet you, stand tall, look straight ahead, pull your hands up by your chest, and turn yourself away from him. When Rupert stops jumping, turn to him and give him praise or a treat. Rupert will start to learn that when he jumps on you he gets no attention or reward. If he jumps up again, repeat the steps.
• Stand tall, look straight ahead, pull your hands up by your chest, and turn away from him.
• Ask some friends to help you out.  Have them ring the door bell and you answer.  When Rupert wants to jump up, have them turn away from him.
• If Rupert knows sit, you can ask him to sit prior to greeting people.

What not to do:

• Do not become really excited when you greet Rupert.  Stay calm.
• Do not shout at your furry friend.  This can get him more excited and cause him to jump.
• Do not try to grab your dog or push him away.  The physical contact will likely cause him to jump up even more.
• Do not knee your dog in the chest, step on his back toes, pinch his front toes, or otherwise cause him pain or discomfort, when he tries to greet you or other people.

Hope this helps you and Rupert out – stay committed to helping Rupert learn some greeting manners and you will both enjoy the company of your guest!

Stay Cool!

- Harvey